Haunting

Do you think you may have a ghost living with you? Do you feel you are being watched in your own home? Do you sometimes hear unexplained noises? It may just be coincidence - OR - you may be experiencing a haunting.

However, you may feel uncomfortable and not want your visitor to remain because you feel threatened or nervous even though there may be no evidence that your spirit visitor means you any harm. The fact is that some people are not happy with having a stranger living with them and do not want to make any sort of contact. If the spirit tends to be in one room only then ask them if they can please step back out of that room - however, it is important that you do not order them and that you are always polite. Lets face it, if someone ordered you to do something you would be far less likely to do it than if you are asked politely and spirit is exactly the same. You could also try asking them if they could please not make noises or sounds because it makes you nervous, again remembering to be tactful. You have to remember that this person may have lived in your home in the past and they still feel a strong link there. Explain exactly how you feel in simple terms and they will understand. They still may not want to leave your home permanently, but could stop trying to make contact with you and chances are that the haunting will either cease or become much less.

However, it is worth mentioning here that sometimes spirit is still here because they are ’lost’. Sometimes they are looking for someone who has already passed on, do not know how to pass on themselves or are simply afraid to go to the light. You could contact one of the many spiritual groups who would be able to help you with this, so simply use the Internet to track down them down and let them know you have a problem haunting. It is a very simple matter for them to help spirits to go to the light and pass on. That always assumes, of course, that the spirit wants to go and is not either grounded here or just simply wants to stay of their own accord.

Sometimes spirits just want to stay on in a place that has happy memories for them and are not willing to pass on and go to the light. In extreme cases a spirit can be grounded here, but that is usually someone who has done something bad on earth and will not be granted the right to pass on. However, if the latter is haunting your home then you would have a totally different experience and have bad feelings or poltergeist activity and it may be necessary to think seriously about exorcism. This is an extreme measure and is a very rare occurrence, however.

The best advice I can give is try to live with your spirit in harmony, if necessary by striking up an understanding and letting them know how you feel and you should easily be able to live with your haunting spirit friend.